B is for Bad Habits

B is for Bad Habits, 2015 A to Z Challenge -- April J. Moore

This picture was taken by my grandfather. In fact, many of the pictures you’ll see this month from me, were taken by him. He was an amateur photographer and myself, along with my sister and all of our cousins, were the subjects of hundreds and hundreds of pictures taken by him over many years—same with our kids. He was also (and still is) a smoker. The glasses in the picture belonged to my grandmother. Despite not being a fan of cigarettes and smoking, I like this picture. It’s a slice of life within a slice of time that holds a lot of great memories for me. (It makes for a great writing prompt, too.)

Bad habits can be hard to break. We know this as writers. These habits can pertain to writing itself, such as improper comma usage, passive voice, or run-on sentences. Other bad habits can sabotage our efforts to write in the first place. Fortunately, unlike smoking, I think these habits are a little easier to break.

Playing it safe. We don’t always take risks as writers and push ourselves, or our characters, to new limits. If we don’t, we’ll never see what we’re capable of. Try writing in a different genre, or in a different style; write characters who scare you, or write about a subject matter that makes you uncomfortable. You can take risks in lots of different ways to beef up your writing and show readers what you’re capable of.

Not setting a writing schedule. I’m certainly guilty of this. Sometimes, I only write when I’m feeling it. Such a lame excuse. Just the act of sitting down and free writing can make you feel it. It’s the same when I’m not “inspired” to hit the gym, but when I force myself to, it doesn’t take long for those endorphins to kick in and I end up being happy I dragged myself out of bed. If we all waited until inspiration struck, we’d rarely produce any work. In The Artist’s Way, Julia Cameron urges us to keep “morning pages,” in which we free write at the same time every morning, typically after we wake up. Writing is the fuel for our creativity.

Quitting when the going gets tough. It’s so easy to say, “Screw it!” when things don’t turn out the way we want, or we come upon a difficult scene to write. We oftentimes want to throw in the towel when we start accumulating the rejections, but that’s when it’s time to either trudge through that difficult scene, or to take another look at the query letter. Something may not be working, so look into another way of doing it. 

Comparing yourself and your work to others. We all have authors we admire and even emulate, and that’s okay; we can learn a lot from them. The problem is that we can fall into the trap of thinking we need to be them in order to be respected as writers. Other times, it’s easy to get wrapped up in jealousy of fellow writers who are enjoying success. It’s natural to get sucked into all of this, but we need to embrace the reasons we’re different from those authors and start channeling that envious energy toward mastering the craft, as well as your own unique style.

Being negative. Stop beating yourself up! Many writers, whether they say it to themselves, or to others, the constant, “I’m never going  be good enough,” or “I suck,” does nothing but create this dark cloud hovering over your head. Plus, it annoys the hell out of those around you. If you think you’re so terrible, try to pinpoint what areas you think you need help in and focus on that area: go to the library and check out reference books, enlist a friend to help read over a troublesome chapter, take a class through the local writing organization. Even getting away from your WIP and trying something new can rejuvenate your writing mojo and cast that black cloud away.

These are just a few of the bad habits we as writers can easily fall victim to. What are some others and how do you just say no to them?

A to Z Challenge 2015

12 thoughts on “B is for Bad Habits

  1. Good tips for breaking bad writing habits. I am a fan of The Artist’s Way and have been doing morning pages for about 13 or 14 years now.

    1. It’s so easy to fall into that; I think we all do. I’m a believer that the more positive we are about our work, the more positive energy and good things come our way.

  2. Picture Prompt:

    Ted had been on the road for a long time. With each passing hour he had tossed one item out the window and on to the freeway. With the memento gone, so to was his attachment to its representative owner. So far Ted had chucked an empty beer can, his favorite writing pen, his parent’s last will and testament, and his cell phone. There were only two things left: his cigarette habit and his wife’s sunglasses. One of them had to go, if he were to survive through the end of the week. He looked at his watch: 1:58. It was time to choose.

  3. My bad habit is not saying “no” to offers to help, etc. Of course, then I’m stressed, deadline maxed, wondering what-the-heck have I done. All of a sudden, some of those other bad habits start to look pretty good. Anything to “take the edge off,” they say. That is a neat picture.

    1. Yep, that’s a good one. I’ve been in the same critique group for over ten years and we’ve all gotten pretty good about not taking criticism personally, but it took time for sure. You realize they’re there to help because they believe in the project as much as you do.

  4. Thank you, Pat! I’ve probably done all of these things at one time or another, and I have to make a conscious effort to avoid them usually. Like you, my biggest problem is not letting myself get distracted while writing, or having a lame excuse to not sit down and start. I can’t wait to see this cast!

  5. Good post, April! After all these, I still struggle with making myself write when almost any little distraction will give me an excuse to wander off. I guess I’ve never been very good at just saying no, even when it’s the laundry or the cat that begs for my attention.

    Now that I can’t wander very far from my chair (and by the way, I have a new Hot Pink cast on my foot as of yesterday), I’m doing a little better. I even jumped into Camp NaNoWriMo this month.

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